This essence brings an effortless ability to handle all the complexities of relationships more easily, and to prioritise what is important to us in our relationships, and what we can discard or move away from. It could also be termed the ‘clarity in relationships’ essence, as it helps us to become clear about what we want in a relationship, or more importantly what we want to avoid! We can also see other people’s relationships more clearly, so it would help a relationship counsellor to give the right sort of advice to people that were trying to help. We become very aware of the web of interconnections in relationships in general, and how we relate to that ourselves.
‘Winnolia Vimmala’ is all about handling love in the mind and the will, helping us to see ourselves in relationship with others more clearly, and becoming clear of our course of action in the many possible relationship situations that we all face. For those who have had many failed marriages or partnerships this will be especially useful, as so many problems in relationships are due to a lack of consciousness about ourselves in relationships. This essence helps us to see ourselves as other people see us, rather than as we like to think we are being seen, so it helps to create good relationships through realism and objectivity.
Rather than enhancing love, or the ability to love, this essence enhances our ability to handle love, and to put it in the right place in our consciousness and our life. It gives the much-needed ability of mental clarity in relationships, which is so often lacking to the detriment of all concerned. It is a great help in all long-term relationships such as marriages to keep the relationship alive and vital, and keep clear of pitfalls coming from our desires. It can help those who have a problem to ‘be loving’, to manifest love in their thoughts and actions and to create true harmony in their relationships.
In social situations it helps us to be clear about a whole network of relationships between people, and who is relating to whom and in what way. In this way it is a tool to bring harmony to a whole group of people.